My dream man informed me he was a millionaire lotto winner – however he was dwelling in his automobile AND dishonest on me with 5 others

WENDY Stubbs thought that she’d met her dream man when she matched with Christian Barber on a relationship website. 

He was a lottery winner who owned a fleet of luxurious automobiles and a resort complicated in Barbados, in addition to a big home within the unique Cornish resort of Rock – or so she thought.

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“He was excellent,” says 58-year-old Wendy. “He was there to avoid wasting me.” 

She had just lately divorced from her husband, and was on relationship apps in search of somebody to “share issues with”. 

Wendy was wooed by how a lot she had in frequent with Christian, in addition to their shared love for holidays. 

“I believed, ‘crikey, this man’s sensible!’” she provides. 

“We had some good occasions and we had enjoyable… he was enjoyable to be with.

“However wanting again, he was only a mere actor.” 

This string of lies was conman Christian’s approach of gaining Wendy’s belief (and financial institution particulars) earlier than swindling £20,000 out of her checking account in small increments.

She wasn’t his solely sufferer, although. 

Christian, 52, frauded at the very least six ladies out of greater than £45,000 between September 2011 and March 2013.

After assembly on standard relationship websites and in resort lobbies, he would achieve their belief by displaying them pictures of at the very least eight luxurious automobiles he supposedly owned, resembling Maseratis and Porsches.

He would additionally repay their bank card payments, provide assist in direction of lease and supposedly e book lavish romantic holidays.

Then, he would ‘reveal’ why he was so wealthy. 

Christian would inform his feminine victims that he was a £118 Euromillions winner who needed to verify if they really “favored him for who he’s” earlier than divulging the supply of his riches. 

He even went so far as to say that the lotto ticket was bought from a petroleum station. 

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Nevertheless it was all extraordinarily removed from the reality. 

Christian was actually homeless and dwelling out of his 2003 VW Golf.

One sufferer gave up her rented house, anticipating they’d transfer in collectively, whereas one other ended a long-term relationship to be with him, a court docket heard in February 2014. 

He deserted a 3rd sufferer by the roadside after convincing her that she was about to embark on the vacation of a lifetime – after which “drove off to his subsequent sufferer”.

Wendy appeared on This Morning to share her expertise of falling sufferer to a romance rip-off. 

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She appeared alongside one other of Christian’s victims, 67-year-old Christine Spencer, who misplaced an eye-watering £11,000 to the conman after assembly him at a resort check-in desk. 

Simply three weeks after they met in January 2012, he proposed to her and informed her he needed to speculate her cash in his resort enterprise in Barbados.

Bizarrely, he used the cash he had stolen from Wendy to purchase Christine’s engagement ring.

However the divorced mum-of-three smelt a rat together with his story.

Christine then caught him out mendacity about going to a solicitor concerning the Barbados enterprise proposal and sought unbiased recommendation on the contract he had drafted for her.

You moved from one sufferer to a different when the cash ran out. It was only a way of life for you. You set out the bait, they took the bait and also you then took their cash, their dignity and their self-respect

Recorder Gareth Evans QC

In February 2014, Lincoln Crown Court docket was informed that Barber had 16 prior convictions relationship again to 1993, for offences resembling fraud and housebreaking.

Recorder Gareth Evans QC stated to Christian on the trial: “You selected weak victims. 

“You moved from one sufferer to a different when the cash ran out. It was only a way of life for you.

“You set out the bait, they took the bait and also you then took their cash, their dignity and their self-respect.

“They’d be left by the aspect of the highway as you drove off to your subsequent sufferer.

“It’s a beggar’s perception.”

He was jailed for 59 months after admitting eight expenses of theft, three expenses of fraud and a cost of constructing off with out fee for resort lodging.